Welcome
Reflect Him is a Christ-centered space focused on strengthening faith-based relationships, protecting religious freedom, and helping individuals navigate challenges that impact joy in faith and family.
We can have lasting influence when we reflect Him.
My name is JEN
I’m Jennifer Weaver—a mom of three grown children I’m grateful to share close relationships with, and an empty nester married to my best friend for over thirty years.
You may be wondering whether everyone is truly welcome here. The answer is yes.
My story has many layers—beautiful experiences in faith and family, religious freedom impacted as a teen who wanted to change her faith, and long-term effects from faith being influenced in ways that were not Christlike. More recently, I’ve recognized some of what I experienced reflected in my faith community’s youth protection training and religious freedom resources. That recognition strengthened my desire to gather the support and tools I wish had been available sooner.
Above all, I’ve come to know my Savior’s ability to restore agency, heal spiritual wounds, and bring light to experiences that are hard to name. Every good thing in my life now is because of Him.
If you’ve ever felt confused, pressured, or uneasy in relationships where faith played a central role—or from those outside your faith community who don’t understand your beliefs—you may find encouragement here. If you are here to better understand someone you love or lead, I’m glad you are here too.
For most of my adult life, I’ve served teens and youth leaders through religious education, church camps, and youth programs in both local and broader settings. I’ve also worked in early childhood education and with a nonprofit supporting evidence-based programs for at-risk youth. I currently serve as a church camp resource for leaders in my faith community across the western United States.
Our Savior understands everything we have experienced. He stood by us then, and He stands by us now. With His help, we can learn to reflect Him—and respond well, even to the most complex experiences.
Your friend in faith and hope,
Jen Weaver
At the heart of this work is a simple belief:
“Remember how Jesus ate with ‘sinners’? He kept everyone at the table. Just as He never gave up on individuals, I believe He doesn't gives up on families or faith communities. He cares deeply about us all. No one is beyond His reach.”
—Jennifer Weaver
The Book
The Girl Who Dropped Jesus and Then He Carried Her is my upcoming memoir about faith, belonging, and the subtle ways fear, humor, shame, and faith in Jesus Christ shape belief and family.
From childhood mishaps—like dropping Jesus in church—to navigating a faith transition at a religious high school, my story traces what it means to be caught between two faith communities and three generations, while discovering my Savior’s power to heal spiritual wounds.
The Reflect Him Podcast
Conversations about the things that impact joy in faith and family—and how Jesus Christ helps us heal, respond well, and build stronger relationships.
Grounded in lived experience, faith-based resources, and conversations with experts, this podcast explores the importance of protecting religious freedom and how agency, dignity, and belonging strengthen faith in families and communities.
Art in frame by Jorge Cocco Santángelo
